This has been the most annoying blog post ever -no matter how many times we try and get the photos and text to match it jumps back so we have given up – relying on your intelligence to link them! I think I need a course!
Well folks, we left Rose at Auckland airport. We both tried to be brave and Rose was more successful at it than me. She said it was much harder to be the one left behind, normally she is the one who is doing the leaving and beginning an adventure. I found it especially hard to leave her as I knew she would be by herself for two weeks with no one to distract or comfort her….Still we said the final goodbye and I went round the corner to passport control sobbing all the way, I had to have a medicinal brandy, not caring that, as we had so few dollars left, that would leave little money for the boys and food (they coped).
I was still a little teary on the plane and felt obliged to explain to the chap next to me why I was (quietly by this stage) crying. He was very sweet and said he thought it was because I was frightened of flying! As if readers! Turns out he was a Kiwi who had never flown in a plane or left the country before, he was having to go to the states for work. How had he prepared for his plane adventure? He had watched back to back episodes of greatest plane disasters. At this point I recognised a kindred spirit. We had a discussion about turbulence when we started to go through a bumpy patch, and he enlightened me about why you have to buckle your seat belt during turbulence..I suggest those of you who do not like flying do not read the next paragraph!
He said that on one of the episodes he watched they told the story of a jumbo flying through a lightening storm. It did a barrel roll! Apparently it flew upside down and on its side for quite a while before they were able to right it. Now I understand why they tell you to put your seat belt on….
Although he had never been on a plane, he was a keen tramper (NZ term for hiker) and had often got a helicopter to a remote location, tramped for a few days and then got picked up again. We discussed helicopters and I told him I loved to watch them, but was too terrified to go in one. He thought if I had coped with a small plane, I could easily cope with a helicopter as long as I didn’t get a show off, gung ho helicopter pilot. But … of course, he had never been in a small plane to compare. Those of you who have been in both, what are your thoughts?
It was a 12 hour flight to Los Angeles. We left NZ at 4.00 pm on Sunday afternoon, flew for 12 hours, and reached Los Angeles at 6.00 am on Sunday morning, having crossed the international date line! We had chosen not to stay in LA but to fly on to San Fran. LA was mad, so busy after the emptiness of NZ, and with all the high level security, there were queues everywhere. We didn’t have much time to transfer to our flight so it was a bit pressured. At one point we had to exit the airport international area to reach the domestic area, as we walked along with our bags an airport man was directing us where to go, he turned to Rory and thanked him for giving him such a lovely smile and gave him a high five! This was Rory’s first trip to the US, his first encounter with an American and his first (American) high five, he was very chuffed! The flight was delayed, I think every flight was, but we eventually boarded, exhausted, on to an oldish plane with no leg room and non reclining seats. What should have been a 40 minute flight then became an hour and a half flight as only one runway was open in San Fran for some reason. Despite the plane, Rory and TJ who had remained awake the entire preceding 12 hour flight (Rory watching 5 films back to back, plus countless episodes of Curb Your Enthusiasm), stating they could not sleep on planes, promptly fell asleep for the duration. It was a glorious day and J and I enjoyed seeing the California coast line as we circled it repeatedly.
Los Angeles had been warm and sunny, so arriving in SF was a shock. It wasn’t sunny and felt freezing! On our first day we had to shop for long socks and gloves(me) and warmer clothes. The brown top you see me wearing in every SF picture is my new purchase. It’s a sweat shirt top with sort of furry lining and sooo warm – and it was only £14 or so! The prices were much cheaper than home, enhanced by great sale bargains. Australia and NZ had been impossibly expensive so we hadn’t even bothered window shopping, but the boys had money burning a hole, so we spent a couple of days visiting neighbourhoods for particular shops they (well TJ really) wanted to check out. It was actually quite a nice way of getting around the city and seeing more than the usual tourist sites. In between the shopping excursions we did the usual trips, some we had done before, but what a difference! Back in October it was sunny and busy, particularly down by the water front, this time it was deserted. We took a boat trip around the bay that went under the bridge (as it was virtually too misty to see it otherwise) and around Alcatraz and there were no other boats in the bay, last time it had been really busy, and of course this time the sea lions had gone! As you can see it was cold! That’s Alcatraz in the background.
Now as you know I am no great meat lover but really…is this an attractive option for any of you that are?
Another reason why it was time for us to leave…those maple muffins were to die for – and the portions… we were in danger of turning into ….
This was the pier in January – with hardly any sea lions. They have been there for 20 years and left a few weeks before – over 1,500 of them! Some think they left to follow herring, others that they sense an earthquake was coming (this ofcourse was another fear of mine). Sadly, a party was planned in their honour for the week we were there – perhaps they didn’t fancy that?
For contrast here is the same view in October on our first visit, they were jam packed!
Waiting for the bus – but in the sun! Here we are modelling our new purchases. TJ’s new T shirt says ‘obey’, I like the message, but no chance readers…, Rory has on his new cardi (you can’t beat a nice cardi), and I have on my warm sweat shirt top.
City Hall and the market:
TJ and R inside the F tram – Castro to Fisherman’s Wharf. The trams were purchased from around the world, this one came from Milan:
View from the California Street Cable Car! And the view from the top of the line:
Holding on! On one ride I had to stand and hold on. It was not fun, although some of the other passengers, as well as my family, thought it vey funny.
Our flight left in the evening so we had most of the day before we had to get to the airport. It was a beautiful sunny day, and comparatively quite warm. J decided we needed to get some good exercise so we would sleep on the plane, so we walked from our apartment in Haight Ashbury, through Golden Gate park, to the coast, and then back in to town along the coast. Along the way we could not see the sea, so our first view of it was when we literally right up close. It was spectacular. The waves were gigantic, the beach enormous.
And a windmill?
One last paddle (for J at least).
Rory’s new sweat shirt, based on the California flag which you can just see in the first photo in this post. It says ‘smarter than your average bear’!
My baby:
The lovely Ocean Beach. This walk btw took us 4 hours – walking non stop, and it had the desired result – we all slept on the return flight, even TJ!
This is called Dead Man’s Cove – and you can see why. Signs say that no one should swim or even wade in the water as the rip tides are treacherous, yet these guys are surfing – and see how close the rocks are!
Behind us is the Golden Gate bridge from the other side (but you can’t see it).
So that was our last day – and the final photo, from the airport. SF airport is great, it has a museum and library with lots of exhibitions, lots of chairs and no queues. Apparently Auckland airport was voted among the top ten airports of the world – we aren’t sure why!
And now we are home. The journey well and truly over. It was an absolutely brilliant time from start to finish, perfect, we loved every single minute, and I feel very privileged to have been able to experience it. It was hard to leave SF for me as it felt as if I was going further away from Rose, but it was time to return to real life. We arrived for the end of the snow – just a tiny bit in our road, but it is so cold and grey and I really miss the sun. My frozen shoulder which had improved so much I could almost raise it above my head again, is aching a bit - honestly! At the moment I feel as if I am hibernating, I can’t wake up, and have yet to leave the house…
Thank you J for thinking the whole thing up and for the mammoth task of organising it all. A special thank you to our children for coming with us for part of it. Thank you readers for reading it. Or for just looking at the photos (some have confessed). Thank you Jane and Nik and Claire for giving me the idea and encouraging me to do it – and persuading me to learn how to upload photos, maybe next time I will get the hang of audio and video too!
And now reality. Any reasonable job offers considered – and that is for any of us – me, J or TJ! Infact we are now an entirely workless household. J took R back to Sheffield yesterday (he obviously came out of hibernation long enough to leave the house), so five became three – but it could never be quiet here while TJ is around…
I can’t wait to catch up with you all soon! I have found my i phone and its switched on!
The trip of a lifetime …. until the next time…








































































































































